Forgiveness Is Freedom

They say religion is brainwashing and to an extent, I agree but I think religion has different effects on people and in this instance, I think he added more good than evil in the world right now. He did what he thought was best and how can I ever in life be mad at him for that? Is he too soft on his brother’s killer? I don’t think so. What would I have him do instead? Carry around his anger? Allow himself to be weighed down by the pain and harm others? To put his hurt into the world and perpetuate a cycle of grief? For what? To save face and to appease the masses? Please get the fuck out of here with that.

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Pro Blackness and Interracial Dating

How did this work into my pro-blackness? Well, I think there is no escaping my blackness, and no desire on my part to escape. The white men that I dated were all culturally aware, competent and open to talking about race, interracial dating BUT also they were interested in ME! I am very clearly a black woman, with natural hair, natural curves and my thought process is now and will always be for the advancement and equity for black and brown boys and girls everywhere.

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